FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS:

1. Q: CAN I ASK QUESTIONS OF THE SPIRIT DURING THE SESSION?

.......A: Yes and I highly recommend that you bring with you 5-10 questions that you would like your loved one to answer for you at the time of your appointment. Please ask your most important questions first to help ensure that there is sufficient time for the most important ones to be answered by your loved one. Because my particular gift is automatic handwriting (where the spirit takes my very limp hand and writes their messages directly to you), you will have the wonderful benefit of "talking back and forth" with your loved one or angel. My clients tell me that this particular way of communicating makes the session so very gratifying because you are having an actual dialogue with your loved one over the phone--just like in the good old days.

2. Q: HOW WILL I KNOW THAT I AM SPEAKING WITH MY LOVED ONE IN SPIRIT-- CAN I ASK A SPECIFIC QUESTION THAT I KNOW THE ANSWER TO AND COULD EXPECT MY LOVED ONE TO ANSWER?

.......A: Most people, of course, might think in their minds that this would prove that they are indeed talking with the spirit of their Loved One, and not some other spirit that might just be hanging around. It makes full sense to me that my clients would want to know, in any way possible, that we are indeed communicating with the spirit whom they requested.

.......However, there are different kinds of expectations. One type creates and opens a passage for the flow of energy that the spirit needs in order to express all of what they might with you. Another will block the flow needed sometimes completely! (Though not often.)

.......Let me try to explain it to you this way, and with this analogy--Let's say that one goes to a forest of trees expecting to see only "one", tree of "one" particular type and variety before they can or will allow themselves to enjoy the experience.

.......If, however, they come to the forest with openness to enjoy whatever their experience might be, and without their predetermined expectation of seeing "that one particular tree", then they most likely will begin to notice (and enjoy) the whole forest of beautiful trees in it's entirety, and come away from the experience feeling that they were blessed in the process!

.......If they are not able to do this, then they stand the chance of missing the whole (and miraculous) forest! I hope you will understand from the (possibly familiar) analogy, that the more you come in openness, calmness and in faith, the more you will undoubtedly receive!

.......Loved Ones in spirit do not want to disappoint us. To loving spirits it would be sad and disappointing to them if you were less than happy, because they feel sadness when you are sad. And it also would defeat the purpose of their communication with you in the first place, as they realize that this may be the only chance that they may have to speak to you directly. They do not know (at least not at the particular time of session) whether or not you will ever seek to communicate with them in this manner again, and they do not want to turn you off to other possible communication with them.

.......And this is why they most likely will give you something, often times much more than one thing, that will let you know in some way that it is indeed them! This will take place for you the more open you are to receiving, and without YOUR having to ask them some question directly, and that you already know the answer to!

.......The spirits generally do this for you by saying something that you will recognize. It may come through in their speech patterns or a word that they often used, perhaps a nickname or phrase that sparks a memory in your mind of something that they used to like, or like doing, or ways that they have been with you recently while you went about your life.

.......I am, of course, thrilled when this takes place, as it often does, and when a spirit will say something that my client recognizes--but most often I am never sure what will "hit home" or be significant to the client, unless the client tells me in session or following it.

.......Again, I can say with certainty that, the more you come without expectations, the more you will receive and we will all gain and be blessed by the experience--and our session will be of spiritual enrichment for all concerned!

3. Q: IS IT EVER TOO EARLY TO CONTACT A LOVED?

…….A: The angels have described a type of orientation period where by spirits will reacquaint themselves to their surroundings. This orientation can last one week to six months. However, I do consult with my angels ahead of time to find out if your loved one is available for the session.

4. Q: WHAT IS THIS "CLEARING" THAT YOU DO THAT HAS BEEN MENTIONED?

.......A: The angels (who also write through my hand) initially taught me that I need to go through a rather extensive "clearing" process with the spirits before Session time. This most often takes me from a half hour to forty-five minutes before your call, in which I, in part, use the information that you have provided me.

.......My gifts generally do not include my being able to see the spirits as they're writing through my hands, meaning, I am not able to get a picture in my mind of what they look like, so it is very helpful to me if you allow me to question them beforehand to be sure. After all, I want to be "as sure as you are", that we will be communicating with the right spirit.


5. Q: DO I HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT ANY OTHER SPIRITS COMING THROUGH THAT I WOULD NOT WANT TO HAVE CONTACT WITH?

.......A: Another reason I want to go through the clearing process is that there are less-than-benevolent spirits on the other side, and they could try to come through, as they also would like to have a chance to communicate and occasionally like to try to do so. You don't really have to worry about that happening though, because the spirits (that I communicate with) are ONLY the highly honorable and (as possibly mentioned to you before), those that have integrity attached to their spiritual being that is very complete, whole and of goodness! This aspect of their spiritual being or spiritual personality, if you will, may not have been a part of them while they were in their bodies and of this world but, you can believe that, if I was told that they were available for session with my client, they most assuredly are that way now!


6. Q: CAN I SPEAK TO MORE THAN ONE LOVED ONE'S SPIRIT AT MY SESSION?

.......A: Since I do not generally see the spirits themselves and the clearing process takes some time for one spirit, I do not communicate with more than one per session. However, sometimes relatives or friends (who have also made their transitions) will also be there and are able then to talk though the spirit that I have cleared.


7. Q: SHOULD I TAKE NOTES DURING MY SESSION OR WOULD USING A TAPE RECORDER BE BETTER?

.......A: I'd like to encourage you to tape record YOUR part of the conversation, as I do not take that part down. This will be better for you, because I am sure that you will want to remember what you said and how your loved one responded, and that portion will not be in the original writing you will receive. Radio Shack online has an $8 device to hook up to your phone and your cassette recorder. You can view this at Radio Shack 

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.......If you put your phone on speaker, you will be able to record both ends of the conversation through your recording device.

.......You may, of course, also take notes but a cassette tape recorder would free you up immensely in staying in the conversation with us and "in the moment" and you would not have to be remembering or writing what you said when you were at the session.

.......You may also ask questions of your Loved One, but whether or not they will be able to answer, I cannot say. The Lord may have "learning lessons" attached to what you are going through here on earth which, you need to learn on your own, and your loved one may be asked not to interfere with that.

.......Another reason they may not answer may be that "what was once important to your loved one while here in body (other than family), may not have any importance to them now where they are". You are free to ask what you will anyway and your loved one will respond, as they are able or allowed to and however they care to. In other words, they will answer whatever way "they" will answer.

8. Q: WILL I GET THE TRANSCRIPTS OF THE WRITINGS AS IT CAME THROUGH TO YOU?

.......A: You will receive the original writings from me either as an attachment in an e-mail in a few weeks or via snail mail, approximately six weeks following our session. Since the spirits use my hand, brain, and ability to write, what you will be receiving will look similar to my writing, but sloppier, and usually larger than mine. You will receive approximately four to six pages of transcript as they wrote it, and as it came to me.


9. Q: CAN I BE GUARANTEED THAT WHAT MY LOVED ONE SAYS TO ME IN SESSION WILL BE ACCURATE?

.......A: It is not possible for myself or any other medium, or the spirits to have what is stated by them to be 100% accurate. They seem to be more interested in their communication as a whole while in session, and the thoughts that they are trying to express, rather than if their words sometimes make full sense to you at the time.


10. Q: WHAT ABOUT HOW MY LOVED ONE WRITES, MIGHT I RECOGNIZE THEM THROUGH THAT?

.......A: Spirits don't seem to be concerned about spelling correctly (even if they once did while on earth), I have even had spirits spell a family member's name wrong, which to them seems to be all right as long as it sounds the same when it was said. They may use run-on sentences and incorrect grammar but, if they spoke that way in life, it may not be a bother to you (in any case you will now know about it).


11. Q: MY LOVED ONE SPOKE WITH AN ACCENT WILL YOU HEAR THEM THAT WAY?

.......A: Spirits may not have an accent that they used to have while living, then again, they may. They may not remember a language that they spoke while alive, or they may. One explanation for this last statement might be because, since I only know a small amount of some foreign languages, the spirits may have difficulty bringing it to me through my brain and my "knowing" of it.


12. Q: MAY I PRAY AT, BEFORE, OR DURING MY SESSION ACCORDING TO MY OWN FAITH?

.......A: I generally pray (as mentioned previously) before I do my clearing method, and also once again before we start the session. If you pray yourself or want to according to your own faith (which may or may not be different from mine), I would absolutely encourage you to. You may just want to say a little prayer before you make the call. It is always good to ask to receive that which is God's will for you to receive, and your Loved One's wish for you to hear--as it might help you in coming to the session in a state of serenity and peacefulness!

13. Q: CAN YOU TELL ME ANYTHING FURTHER ABOUT HAVING A SESSION WITH YOU OR ANY OTHER MEDIUM?

.......A: I can only be absolute about that which I have experienced in having sessions with my clients and their Love Ones in spirit. I can never really know for sure, what will take place until the time of session, beyond what I have already offered you. Some behavior and aspects of spirits are the same and some are not. Spirits are different in many ways as people are--and as I am sure that you can imagine.

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If you have any further questions not answered in the above please do not hesitate to ask me via E-mail, previous to, or following your session.

I look forward to our time together. Your Loved One and I will be ready and anxiously awaiting your inquiry and session appointment!! I do hope that what has been shared here with you will help you come to your session in a state of peace and openness!

This serene state of being most often can guarantee a pleasant, comforting, enjoyable, and worthwhile experience for you and your Loved One and, of course, myself included! For which I thank you in advance!

God’s blessing to you and yours, and thank you again for considering me for your communication with your Loved One or Angel/Guide.

Respectfully and gratefully yours,

Sunni Welles